Tuesday, June 17, 2008

| Iman Kurdi, Ik511@hotmail.com |
| Is it possible that a man born of a Kenyan father, whose skin is a dark shade of caramel, whose middle name is Hussein and whose surname rhymes with the first name of the world’s most wanted terrorist, whose mother was named Stanley and who married not one but two non-American men, whose stepfather was a Muslim and who, what is more, has been a senator for less than four years, is it really possible that such a man could become the 44th president of the United States of America? Theoretically at least the answer is yes, and yet, for many of us who only know the US through a foreign lens, it seems not just unlikely but counterintuitive.Barack Obama’s candidature may be at one with the American Dream, but it is a straight contradiction of the image of the US abroad. Quite frankly it seems hard to believe that the flag-waving, nationalistic, insular, conservative (at least by European standards) populace who voted in two terms of George W. Bush could vote for a man who on the surface represents everything that the current president is not. Of course Bush is a Republican while Obama is a Democrat and most of those who voted for Bush will vote Republican no matter what, while most of those who voted for Al Gore last time are likely to vote along party lines too. Or will they? This has been one of the most interesting aspects of the campaign for the Democratic nomination, the argument put forward by Hillary Clinton’s camp that those who voted for her would not vote for Obama in a general election and that the reason for this is quite simply his skin color.I have always found swing voters fascinating. While many of the people who talk passionately about politics have clear and generally unwavering allegiance to a particular political camp, the voters who effectively put governments in power are those who are swayed not by a deep belief in ideology but by the promises and personalities of the candidates they have before them on the ballot paper. And to make a sweeping generalization, the kind of person they like to vote for is someone whose persona is convincing and whose policies make them materially better off. In other words, someone who looks like their perception of what a president should look like and who can convince them he or she will look after their best interests in terms of security, wealth, education and healthcare, often in that order.
I could more easily understand Hillary Clinton’s argument if she was saying that swing voters in a general election would be more likely to vote for her than for Obama, but that is only part of the argument. What is actually being said is that EVEN among card-carrying Democrats, there is a sizable contingent who would vote for the candidate of the other party or not vote at all rather than vote for an African American. And that is another thing which intrigues me, the way a man whose mother is white and whose father is black is automatically categorized as black, at least by whites. What would he be if he had three white grandparents and one black grandparent, I wonder? Also African American I suspect. Historically that was certainly the case, just one non-white ancestor was enough to categorize you as non-white too, with all the consequences it entailed. This view of being white as some kind of pure breed is offensive and brings to mind the certificates that come with pedigree dogs whereby the owner can be assured that all the ancestors of their new pet were indeed of the same breed. Besides I have long found categorization based on race offensive in its own right. Whenever I have to tick such a box on a questionnaire I am tempted to tick on “other” and write “human”. Technically, if you must insist on these kinds of categorizations, Barack Obama is of mixed race, or Metisse as the French have christened those born of parents of different skin colors. Moreover he was brought up by his mother and his maternal grandmother — both white. It’s little wonder that some African Americans questioned his African American identity and wondered whether someone who was not descended from slavery could accurately reflect their identity. Though he has now won the popular African American vote, many were at first keener to vote for Hillary Clinton rather than for a man they did not quite see as one of them. And here is another question: Had Barack Obama not been head to head with a woman for the Democratic nomination would he have won? Given it was not initially a two-horse race perhaps the question is not so pertinent, but still, it is worth asking. The candidates may have held fiery and informed debates and argued about foreign policy and other political issues but the critical, decisive question of the campaign was: “Who would be more likely to win the presidency between a white woman and a black man?” So now that Obama is up against another man and that he is campaigning for the votes of all Americans and not just those of his own party, what are his chances? If the rest of the world were voting, he would probably win hands down. He is so much more of an attractive prospect than John McCain, not just because he is young and eloquent, but because he holds a world view that is far more empathic toward foreigners. There has also been much talk about him being the more pro-Arab of the candidates but I think that is an error. If anything, the opposite is more likely to be true. Wanting a phased withdrawal of troops from Iraq and wanting to talk to Iran do not somehow make him pro-Arab, they just show him to be more open to diplomatic resolutions to conflicts and more averse to direct military intervention than Bush. President Obama, I suspect, will be as fervently pro-Israel as his predecessor, partly because it is a given of how American foreign policy functions and partly because he needs to be seen to be supportive of Israel to win the sizable Jewish vote which currently eludes him. Sadly we non-Americans don’t get to vote in November. Obama’s fate will quite naturally be decided by the citizens of his own country. If they do vote him into power, it might or might not lead to a change in the way America is run, but it will certainly change the way most of us see the US.
SOURCE: http://www.arabnews.com/?page=7§ion=0&article=110644&d=7&m=6&y=2008 |
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JUNE 11TH TORNADO VICTIMS
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| Frightened Boy Scouts huddled in a shelter as a tornado tore through their western Iowa campground, killing four teens and injuring 48 others who had little warning of the approaching twister.Tornadoes also raked Kansas on Wednesday, killing at least two people, destroying much of the small town of Chapman and causing extensive damage on the Kansas State University campus.
Iowa rescue workers cut through downed branches and dug through debris amid rain and lightning Wednesday night to reach the camp where the 93 boys, ages 13 to 18, and 25 staff members were attending a weeklong leadership training camp. The tornado killed three 13-year-olds and one 14-year-old, said Lloyd Roitstein, an executive with the Mid America Council of the Boy Scouts of America. He did not release the names of the victims. Roitstein said a tornado siren went off at the camp, but the scouts had already taken cover before the siren sounded. The boys had been in two groups when the storm hit the Little Sioux Scout Ranch in the remote Loess Hills. One group managed to take shelter, while the other was out hiking. At least 42 of the injured remained hospitalized Thursday morning, with everything from cuts and bruises to major head trauma, said Gene Meyer, Iowa’s public safety commissioner. At least four of the injured were airlifted from the camp, he said, refusing to elaborate on their conditions or identify the dead. “Our thoughts and prayers are with the victims and the families of the victims,” Gov. Chet Culver said. “We continue to do everything we can to make sure those injured are going to recover.” All the scouts and staff were accounted for, Meyer said, adding that searchers were making another pass through the grounds to make sure no one else was injured. The camp was destroyed. Thomas White, a scout supervisor, said he dug through the wreckage of a collapsed fireplace to reach victims in a building where many scouts were seeking shelter when the twister struck at 6:35 p.m. “A bunch of us got together and started undoing the rubble from the fireplace and stuff and waiting for the first responders,” White told KMTV in Omaha, Neb. “They were under the tables and stuff and on their knees, but they had no chance.” The nearest tornado siren, in nearby Blencoe, sounded only briefly after the storm cut power to the town, said Russ Lawrenson of the Mondamin Fire Department. Taylor Willoughby, 13, said several scouts were getting ready to watch a movie when someone screamed that there was a tornado. Everyone hunkered down, he said, and windows shattered. “It sounded like a jet that was flying by really close,” Taylor told NBC’s “Today” on Thursday. “I was hoping that we all made it out OK. I was afraid for my life.” Ethan Hession, also 13, said he crawled under a table with his friend. “I just remember looking over at my friend, and all of a sudden he just says to me, `Dear God, save us,”‘ he told “Today.” “Then I just closed my eyes and all of a sudden it’s (the tornado) gone.” Ethan said the scouts’ first-aid training immediately compelled them to act. “We knew that we need to place tourniquets on wounds that were bleeding too much. We knew we need to apply pressure and gauze. We had first-aid kits, we had everything,” he said. Ethan said one staff member took off his shirt and put it on someone who was bleeding to apply pressure and gauze. Other scouts started digging people out of the rubble, he said. At a news conference Thursday, Culver praised the scouts for “taking care of each other” as emergency workers from several state and local agencies cut through debris to reach the camp. Roitstein reminded reporters at the news conference that the Boy Scouts motto is “Be Prepared.” “Last night, the agencies and the scouts were prepared,” he said. “They knew what to do they knew where to go and they prepared well.” The injured were taken to Burgess Health Center in Onawa, Alegent Health Clinic in Missouri Valley and Creighton University Medical Center in Omaha. Burgess spokeswoman Beth Frangedakis said 19 victims arrived at the hospital around 8:30 p.m. They included children ages 2 months to 15 years, plus three adults. Frangedakis said four were admitted to the hospital, one was taken by helicopter to Mercy Medical Center in Sioux City, Iowa, and the others were released. She wouldn’t release the nature of the victims’ injuries. David Hunt, chairman of the Mid-America Boy Scout Council’s Goldenrod District, which covers several eastern Nebraska counties, said he believed the boys were from eastern Nebraska and western Iowa. The 1,800-acre ranch about 40 miles north of Omaha includes hiking trails through narrow valleys and over steep hills, a 15-acre lake and a rifle range. The tornado touched down as Iowa’s eastern half grappled with flooding in several cities. The storm threatened to stretch Iowa’s emergency response teams even further. Iowa Homeland Security spokeswoman Julie Tack said officials were confident the state’s emergency response teams could handle the crisis because western Iowa had been largely unaffected by the recent flooding. Along the Mississippi River in Missouri and Illinois, the National Weather Service was predicting the worst flooding in 15 years. Outlying areas could be inundated, but most of the towns are protected by levees and many low-lying property owners were bought out after massive flooding in 1993, officials said. Meanwhile, a line of tornadoes cut a diagonal swath across Kansas, causing widespread damage. Chapman, a Dickinson County town of about 1,400, appeared to be hardest hit. Sharon Watson, spokeswoman for the Kansas Adjutant General’s Department, said more than 60 homes were destroyed and buildings were damaged. All three of the town’s schools were damaged, and the high school gymnasium lost part of its roof. Watson said one victim was found in a yard in Chapman. Homman said three people were critically injured and taken to a hospital. Geary Community Hospital in Junction City. Electricity was out across town, and Homman said the search continued for other possible victims. “We’re still going through methodically one residence at a time,” he said. The other Kansas victim was found outside a mobile home in the Jackson County town of Soldier, Chapman said. The tornado that struck Kansas State University’s campus in Manhattan destroyed a wind erosion laboratory and heavily damaged a fraternity house. Debris littered the campus, and classes were cancelled, but the university reported no injuries. Associated Press writers Henry C. Jackson in Des Moines, Iowa; Anna Jo Bratton in Onawa, Iowa; and John Hanna in Chapman, Kan., contributed to this report. |
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This past week, I was honored to have been given lots of love from Sojourner, of “Sojourner’s Place” ( http://sojournersplace.blogspot.com/2008/06/share-love.html). She included me in with some very great bloggers on her post “Share The Love”. Sojourner herself was the primary recipient of this love, and she was kind enough to pass it on to her fellow bloggers. Here is an excerpt from the post from Regina’s Family Seasons, the original author of this link:
“The “Sharing The Love “Award, was created by Blogger Crystal at “Memoirs Of A Mommy” blog, in honor of donor who saved her one month old’s life a year ago. Cyrstal’s son Noah celebrated his first birthday this week thanks to someone you final gift was the gift of life.
In Crystal’s own words, here are the rules of the Share the Love Award:
“Share this award with all those blogs out there that you love. All the people who make you smile. All those that make you laugh. All those that make your day. All those that leave uplifting comments on your blog.
**All I ask, is that you include a link to this post with the award and ask your recipient to do the same**
As you may have recently seen on my side bar, I have finally created a custom blog award!! I have wanted to do this for a long time but never came up with something that “fit”. I didn’t want just anything. It had
to be something that meant something to me. And what could mean more than Sharing the Love by giving you pieces of my heart??So I created this award in Honor Of The Donor That Saved Noah’s Life. I share this award with those of you whose love and friendship have enriched my life and made my world a better place.I hope by passing this award around the blogging world we can all help raise awareness of the need for Organ Donation.”
I thank Sojourner for bestowing this humble honor on me and the following bloggers:
From My Brown Eyed View
New Black Woman
Modern Musings
Don’t Color Me
Coffee Stained News
Black Perspective.net
Beautiful, Also, Are the Souls of Black Sisters
Black Tennis Pros
Black Women Blow the Trumpet
Hagar’s Daughters
• Bone marrow more likely to match within ethnic groups
• Blacks 8 percent of registered bone marrow donors, 12 percent of population
• Fear and mistrust of U.S. medical system often cited by many black people
I too would like to give due to my fellow bloggers in my “Share the Love”. So, without further ado, here is my love:
My apologies for anyone that I missed. Know that you are in my heart and thoughts.
Thanks to all the above wonderful blogs and all you do that inspires me.
Share the Love.
Pass it on.
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I posted this tribute to fathers last year. For those of you who missed it, I am posting it again. Fathers do so much and are taken for granted so often. If you have not done so, wish your father a very Happy Father’s Day. Believe me, he will appreciate it more than you will ever know.
Happy Father’s Day to those who are fathers in blood, and to those who are fathers in spirit. Fathers who have no children but are fathers to those children who have no fathers. Fathers who silently do for the women and children in their lives: sisters, mothers, nieces, nephews, sons, daughters, grandchildren. Fathers who listen when a young adult or child just needs someone to speak to.
A father is more than just someone who gives you their name.
A father is someone who never stops loving you, who never stops caring about what happens to you no matter how old you become.
I know the saying is cliched, but, as it goes: “Any man can father a child, but, it takes a man to be a father.
Happy Father’s Day to everyone!
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ORIGINALLY POSTED JUNE 17, 2007
Father’s Day is a primarily secular holiday inaugurated in the early 20TH Century to complement Mother’s Day in celebrating fatherhood and parenting by males, and to honor and commemorate fathers and forefathers. Father’s Day is celebrated on a variety of dates worldwide, and typically involves gift-giving to fathers and family-oriented activities.
In the United States, the first modern Father’s Day celebration was held on July 5, 1908, in Fairmont, West Virginia. It was first celebrated as a church service at Williams Memorial Methodist Episcopal Church South, now known as Central United Methodist Church. Grace Golden Clayton, who is believed to have suggested the service to the pastor, is believed to have been inspired to celebrate fathers after the deadly mine explosion in nearby Monongah the prior December. This explosion killed 361 men, many of them fathers and recent immigrants to the United States from Italy. Another possible inspiration for the service was Mother’s Day, which had recently been celebrated for the first time in Grafton, West Virginia, a town about 15 miles away. Father’s day originates as far back as 1839 in celebration of the fathers that went to war in the Battle of Iransop in which 123 fathers lost their lives defending the outpost.
Another driving force behind the establishment of the integration of Father’s Day was Mrs. Sonora Smart Dodd, born in Creston, Washington. Her father, the Civil War veteran William Jackson Smart, as a single parent reared his six children in Spokane, Washington. She was inspired by Anna Jarvis’s efforts to establish Mother’s Day. Although she initially suggested June 5, the anniversary of her father’s death, she did not provide the organizers with enough time to make arrangements, and the celebration was deferred to the third Sunday of June. The first June Father’s Day was celebrated on June 19, 1910, in Spokane, WA.
Unofficial support from such figures as William Jennings Bryan was immediate and widespread. President Woodrow Wilson was personally feted by his family in 1916. President Calvin Coolidge recommended it as a national holiday in 1924. In 1966, President Lyndon Johnson made Father’s Day a holiday to be celebrated on the third Sunday of June. The holiday was not officially recognized until 1972, during the presidency of Richard Nixon.
In recent years, retailers have adapted to the holiday by promoting male-oriented gifts such as electronics ,tools and greeting cards. Schools and other children’s programs commonly have activities to make Father’s Day gifts.
(Information courtesy of Wkipedia Encyclopedia.)
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The image of fathers suffers very much in this society. Fathers are looked upon as some entity that you can take, or leave. And from the looks of things, many would prefer to leave the importance of fathers behind. How did we come to this? Minimizing, trivializing the importance of fathers? In print, in the media, in movies and on TV, fathers are shown as just so much nonessential, useless stumbling blocks that get in the way, irritate and annoy, anger and enrage, the collective body of the rest of America. It’s almost as if many people wish that fathers would just stop being the buzzing annoying insects that many people look upon them as, and just quietly shut up and go away. Fathers get such short shrift in this society. In the movies they are shown as inept, bungling, and out of touch, and sometimes the visual imagery and written text portrays them as simpletons who don’t know whether they are coming, or going. But, it was not always this way with fathers.
Two centuries ago, fathers had practically 100% custodial rights to their children. Today, a mother is more likely to obtain custody of the children in a divorce. When many people think of fathers, they do not begin to consider the profound impact fathers have on their children’s lives. Impact that can be positive as well as negative.
Fathers in children’s lives can create so much that will stay with a child well into adulthood.
Fathers can push children to independence. Fathers can make a difference in a child’s world, by helping them build confidence and character. By teaching their children a trade, how to take things apart, and put them back together, fathers can teach children how things work; fathers can teach children patience in learning to figure the inner workings of machinery, especially in the realm of working on a car. Fathers can teach children how to prepare themselves for the workforce. Fathers can instill a work ethic in their children, to where that child, upon becoming an adult, will do their job good enough and a little more than what is asked of them, to where they do their work with pride, with accomplishment, to where they are proud to sign their name to all the work they do in life.
Fathers can instill respect into their children. A father who loves and admires women can instill into his sons to treat ALL women with adoration, kindness, tenderness, love and joy, no matter what the race, color, religion or nationality of the woman. Fathers can teach their sons that were this world tomorrow to wake up bereft of all women, that this world would be a horrible place to live in. Fathers can teach their sons to always respect the wishes, needs and desires of women, that no matter how tough we women try to make ourselves out to be, that we are vulnerable and delicate, and that women should be loved and appreciated for all the sweetness that we bring to men’s lives.
Fathers should teach their sons that a woman’s mind, soul, and body is sacred, and not some empty vessel for a man to take his rage out on. Fathers who have a profound love of women can teach their sons to never abuse or mistreat a woman; that there have been women who have had men’s backs when no one was in that man’s corner. Fathers should teach their sons that there may be women who go to bat for a man when all others will fail him and desert him, and that men should not deliberately sell women short, nor go out of their way to degrade or debase women.
Fathers can teach empathy towards all human beings in this world. Fathers can go beyond teaching the old maxim, “If you want to understand a person’s life, walk a mile in their shoes”. Empathy is not feeling sorry for someone. That is pity. Empathy is listening to someone; being a sounding-board for them and hearing their hurt, their pains, their sorrows. Empathy is not “I told you so”; empathy is “I’ll be there in whatever way I can, because you are my child, and I love you with all my heart and soul.”
Fathers can teach patience in how to do things. If you don’t get it right the first time, persist, with patience, and while you are at it, work to find out why the endeavor was not done right, and how you could have done it better. Patience takes time to build, and a child who sees their father show patience in his relationships with those around him, the more that child will acquire a more patient approach in many areas of their lives—–towards, his relatives, his neighbors, his co-workers—-himself.
Fathers foster development. Fathers at play with their children, are doing more than throwing a ball, playing chess, checkers, or dominoes. Fathers at play with their children teach skills at learning how to lose gracefully, and how to win without rubbing it into the loser’s face. Fathers at play with their children build physical and emotional strength, and they build character that enables child to learn to work with others , thereby creating teamwork, companionship, comradery, and trustworthiness of being counted on to keep their word, because your word is bond, and should never be discounted, nor treated cavalierly.
Fathers most importantly send the message of how a man can love and respect a woman in the world of sex and intimacy.
A father who hugs, caresses, gently touches, kisses and playfully banters with his wife in front of his child sends a message far more lasting than all the words, cards, flowers and candy he can give his wife, the mother of his children.
A father who shows love of his wife in front of his children sends the message that being kind and loving to your wife, not being overbearing or harsh, is what a man does to show love to the mother of his children.
And that is a message that a daughter picks upon from how father treats or mistreats mother and other women.Yes, fathers have a very important impact they can make on a girl’s life, and that importance should never be disregraded nor ignored.
A daughter who sees her father treating her mother with the tenderest and most patient of care, sees that not only is her mother worthy of humane consideration, but, she, the daughter, sees that she too is worthy of love and respect. She sees how her mother’s humanity is validated and treated not with insignificance. She sees how her father’s concern for Mom’s and daughter’s happiness matters to him. She sees how her father marches, protests and challenges racist and sexist stereotypes, that affect not only her, but all other women; she sees how women are not the enemy, not an abnormality, but, that women are the compliment to men, that women are the gifts that a kind, merciful, and loving God created and gave to man, because God saw how lonely man was and therefore, he created women to be more than a helpmate to man, but, instead, God made woman to be a companion for man, someone to share his life with, someone to help him through those days when the whole world would tell him that he amounted to nothing, someone to laugh and joke with, someone to hold his hand when in public he could not cry, but, in private, he could shed the tears in front of her that he dare not show before others.
Fathers, like mothers, are not given a manual on how to raise the perfect child. Many fathers can be overbearing and hard on their children, but, fathers should step back and try to exercise gentleness to their children and to vex not their children. Fathers, like mothers, often do the best they can. Too many people look upon fathers as if they are the mules who are to go out to work, bring home the bacon, and then have to hear the proverbial, “Wait till your father gets home” when having to chastise the child may be the furtherest thing from Dad’s mind. Sometimes, Dad just wants to come home to a quite house, and for all the problems of the household to wait—-wait just a few minutes while he gains his composure from the beating that the outside world has given him.
Today, June 17, 2007 is Father’s Day.
For those of you who have lost your fathers, I offer you my condolences. You have lost someone who was a very important part of your life. Hopefully your relationship with him had as much joy and happiness as could possibly have been encountered.
To those of you whose fathers still are counted among the living, please let Dad know how much you love him. Muster up the courage to tell him:
“Dad, I love you. Thanks for giving me that last of your money in your pockets just so that I might have a new pair of shoes. Thanks for coming to school for the PTA meeting, no matter how tired you were, having just left work. Thanks for footing the bill for college. Thanks for taking care of yourself so you could be there to give me away for my wedding.
“Dad, thanks for being such a loving father, even though I have not told you often enough”.
“Dad, you’re the best.
“I love you so very much.”
I know Dad may act like he can go without hearing you say you love him, but, make no mistake about it. Behind all of that stoic facade and he-man bravado, Dad would give anything to hear the three most cherished words in the English language:
“I love you.”
I know some of you may have a hard time telling Dad how much you love him, but, like I said in my Mother’s day essay, practice standing in front of a mirror and practice saying the words, “I love you.” When you see Dad today, go up to him, hug him, and tell him you love him. You will feel so much happier doing it. Trust me, you will.
Whatever you do on Father’s Day, whether it is to give Dad the proverbial necktie, a set of tools, or a gift card, please let him know how much he is appreciated as an extremely important part of your life.
Take Dad to the zoo, a play, a movie.
Enjoy Dad’s presence in your life, because once he leaves this world, a very important part of yourself will be taken from you.
Whatever you do on this day with Dad, enjoy.
Make it the best Father’s Day ever.
Happy Father’s Day to everyone.
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